Wednesday, May 23, 2012

The Intellectual Mind

The Intellectual Mind

There are two type of people in this world; there are those that make decisions based on their emotions like I do, and those who rationalize every situation and make their decisions based on what they interpret as logic. Personally, that is a boring way to live in my mind, but I won't judge those who choose to live that way because in the end they probably think I am rash and illogical for my decisions. When I think of someone who decides to, or rather is forced to make intellectual decisions are teachers. There are of course some teachers who choose to act on their emotions for what they think would best benefit their students, but most teachers choose to go by the book for fear of judgement or the potential loss of employment. For example, when teachers are confronted with an unruly student, what do most teachers do? They send them to the office to receive their 'punishment', but there are some teachers who might know that it is something more than how they are acting, a family situation perhaps that they try to deal with themselves first. Like every decision, these both have their pros and cons and so do intellectual and emotional decision makers.
Being an intellectual decision maker does have many positive attributes, even though I do not usually use logic for every simple decision I make, it isn't always a bad thing to rationalize. In the situation I described, the logical thinker chose to send the student to the office while the emotional thinker chose to intervene themselves. But what if the student was violent, and attacked the teacher, then the student would not only have been sent to a detention home but the teacher would have had to deal with a black eye! The way I see it, being a logical thinker produces less negative consequences since using logic can usually keep you out of bad situations, but withholds so many more possible rewards in life. A logical thinker would call the police if he saw a woman being mugged instead of taking action, and the woman might be saved and have her stolen items returned, or she could have potentially been hurt or even killed due to the 'logical thinking' of the bystander who witnessed the crime ad it happened. No mindset is ever foolproof, every action, whether positive or negative, holds a consequence.
Just as thinking rationally can be a positive thing, it can just as easily become a terrible decision in the blink of an eye. So what if that bystander in the last theoretical situation would have taken action, he might have gotten himself killed, or would the victim have been sparred a terrible fait? And the student, what if he had just gone through the death of a relative, or the loss of a close friend, then does he deserve an emotional thinker to ask him what's wrong? Or should he simply be sent out to go to the principal to be assigned his punishment? No matter how you think about it, there are always consequences to a mindset, no way of thinking or making decisions if a perfect one. But one thing is for sure, thinking emotionally or deciding rationally in every situation is only asking for trouble, a truly smart person learns when to use logic to solve a problem, and when to sympathize and take risks. 

"The mind is its own place, and in itself

Can make a heaven of Hell, a hell of Heaven."

- John Milton, Paradise Lost


















Thursday, May 17, 2012

Love

Love 

Love is one of the very first feelings that we distinguish as human beings, whether through experience or lack there of, and is important for healthy human development and a healthy life in itself. One reason why love is so important is because man is a social creature, who needs companionship and compassion to survive in a healthy state of mind. It is an obvious fact that children who aren't shown love and affection grow up without the ability to love others themselves, and in some cases, react violently to human stimulus. A person that has to endure the hardships of a childhood without love also usually endure intense struggle in life because of their lack of ability or willingness to communicate with others because of their experiences as children. And because of the way that society is and has always been, people who cannot effectively cooperate with others that still achieve any kind of personal or materialistic success are rare or nonexistent. 
Another reason that love is such an important factor in the life of a human being is that people use the love of others as consolation in times of despair. Without love, common problems encountered in everyday life could potentially become unbearable to a person without moral support from friends and family. With the love and encouragement of others, the impossible becomes possible, and the insurmountable becomes doable. True success and advancement comes with hard work, dedication, and above all success comes with help. 
Lastly, along with love, companionship is essential not only for materialistic success but also for genuine happiness in life. Although some may say that companionship isn't a factor in success, I disagree. "Behind every good man, is a great woman", like the famous quote states, although everyone has the capability to achieve success for themselves, true inspiration and greatness stems from the love for another. In a sense, it is debatable whether or not you can live without love and companionship; of course you can survive without love, but is that really a life worth living? Is a life lived in solitude a life at all? At one point or another, every desolate person must ask themselves that question; maybe it is only a lucky guess, but I think the conclusion is always the same, a life without another to love and to be loved by is a meaningless one. 

Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle.

- Crystal Middlemas 

Thursday, May 3, 2012

#ForeverAlone

#ForeverAlone

The video above illustrates how epeated rejection can lead to a multitude of responses depending on the individual's natural response. But no matter who the subject of the rejection is, it always hurts; rejection can take a heavy mental and emotional toll on a person. In my mind, the worst reactions to rejection are depression and anger; depression not only effects the person, but also the people around them. And anger can be the most dangerous response to rejection. A person who is rejected to the point where anger takes place of the solitude they feel, is normally the kind of person who can create violent, and even deadly responses as a defense mechanism. No one deserves to be rejected, no one deserves to have to deal with the pain of loneliness.